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Understanding the Role of Mental Health Groups for Men
When I first heard about mental health groups for men, I wasn’t quite sure what to expect. The idea of opening up in a group setting felt a bit daunting. But over time, I’ve come to see just how powerful these spaces can be. They’re not just about talking; they’re about connecting, sharing, and finding strength in community. If you’re a man over 30 looking for a place to belong, you might find these groups to be exactly what you need. Why Mental Health Groups for Men Matter M
Alan Stokes
1 day ago4 min read


How Do You Deal With Being Kept Away From Your Children When a Relationship Breaks Down?
UK guide for men when contact stops: how to stabilise, communicate, use mediation, and record efforts—while safeguarding your child’s wellbeing.
Alan Stokes
2 days ago5 min read


When Silence Speaks: What We Avoid Tells a Story
Silence tells a story. Spot the fears behind avoidance and use practical scripts to have calmer, more honest conversations.
Alan Stokes
Dec 94 min read


When Men Lose Their Role or Identity: Finding Your Way Back
Struggling with divorce, redundancy or retirement? Learn how to handle role loss, manage emotions and rebuild a stronger sense of self.
Alan Stokes
Dec 24 min read


The Importance of Accessible Email Communication
When I first started looking for ways to connect with others, I didn’t realise how much of a difference something as simple as accessible email communication could make. It’s easy to overlook, but having clear, easy-to-find contact details can be a game changer. Whether you’re trying to reach out for support, join a community, or just ask a quick question, accessible email contact info is the bridge that connects us. Let me share why this matters so much, especially for men o
Alan Stokes
Nov 284 min read


Small Cracks, Big Impact: How Everyday Stress Builds Without Notice
Burnout doesn’t hit overnight. Spot small stress cracks in 60 seconds and use 1% habits—breath, sleep, boundaries—to feel better fast.
Alan Stokes
Nov 254 min read


Community Group Momentum and Some Frequently Asked Questions
If you’re a man over 30 living in Plymouth, you might have felt the weight of isolation or the struggle to find a community where you truly belong. I get it. Life gets busy, and sometimes it feels like the connections we crave just slip through our fingers. That’s where groups like group momentum come in. They offer a space to connect, share, and grow with others who understand what you’re going through. Let’s dive into some of the most common questions about group momentum
Alan Stokes
Nov 244 min read


Joining Momentum: A Step-by-Step Guide
Finding a place where you truly belong can feel like searching for a needle in a haystack. Especially when life gets busy, and the usual social circles start to shrink. I’ve been there - craving connection, wanting to be part of something real, but unsure where to start. That’s why I want to share a simple, honest guide to joining a local community, specifically one that’s been a game-changer for me: Momentum. If you’re a man over 30 in Plymouth looking for genuine connection
Alan Stokes
Nov 183 min read


How Modern Life Trains Us to Ignore Our Own Needs
Modern life pressures men to push aside their needs. Discover why it happens, the hidden costs, and how groups like MoMENtum create connection and belonging.
Alan Stokes
Nov 185 min read


Understanding Men's Support Groups
Life after 30 can feel like a bit of a rollercoaster. Work pressures, family responsibilities, and the quiet moments when you wonder if you’re really doing okay can all pile up. Sometimes, it’s tough to find a space where you can just be yourself without the usual masks. That’s where support groups for men come in. They offer a chance to connect, share, and grow with others who get it. Let’s dive into what these groups are all about and why they might just be the thing you di
Alan Stokes
Nov 175 min read


The Hidden Cost of Always Saying “I’m Fine”
Discover why men default to “I’m fine,” the hidden costs of silence, and how MoMENtum events in Plymouth help men connect, belong, and thrive.
Alan Stokes
Nov 115 min read


Practical Strategies to Reduce Loneliness
Loneliness can creep in quietly. It’s not just about being alone but feeling disconnected even when surrounded by people. For men over 30, especially here in Plymouth, finding meaningful connection can feel tough. But it doesn’t have to be that way. I want to share practical ways to reduce loneliness that have worked for me and many others. These strategies are straightforward, doable, and designed to help us build real friendships and support networks. Understanding the Chal
Alan Stokes
Nov 43 min read


Why Rest Feels Harder Than Work (and What to Do About It)
If you’ve ever sat down to “switch off” and immediately felt guilty, restless, or itchy for your phone—this is for you. Many men tell me...
Alan Stokes
Nov 44 min read


Are You Lonely? The Feeling We Don’t Talk About
“Loneliness is the signal men rarely speak about. Discover why silence around loneliness harms wellbeing—and how honest connection can change everything.”
Alan Stokes
Oct 314 min read


Exploring the Benefits of Men's Community Groups
When life gets busy and responsibilities pile up, it’s easy to feel isolated. Many of us crave connection but don’t always know where to find it. That’s where men's groups come in. These groups offer a space to share, support, and grow together. They’re about more than just meeting up - they create a sense of belonging and purpose. Joining a men's community group can be a game-changer. It’s a place where men over 30 in Plymouth can find friendship, encouragement, and practic
Alan Stokes
Oct 313 min read


The Mask of Perfection: Breaking Free from the Burden
“Why chasing ‘flawless’ keeps men stuck. Discover how putting down the perfect shield eases pressure, reduces isolation, and builds real strength through connection.”
Alan Stokes
Oct 244 min read


Embracing Vulnerability: A Path to Connection and Growth
Discover why vulnerability isn’t weakness, how avoidance harms relationships, and practical steps to build courage, honesty, and connection.
Alan Stokes
Oct 174 min read


Shame – the Silent Pain We Carry
The “never good enough” feeling Shame is the emotion that whispers, “You’re not enough.” It shapes our inner commentary and nudges us to...
Alan Stokes
Oct 103 min read


The Mask of Perfection, the Fear of Vulnerability, and the Cost of Silence
Discover how perfectionism and silence hurt men’s wellbeing—and how vulnerability, honesty, and brotherhood build real strength.
Alan Stokes
Oct 34 min read


Accountability & Brotherhood: Why Men Can’t Do This Alone
MoMENtum Men’s Group helps men in Plymouth build accountability, brotherhood, and connection. Discover why no man thrives alone.
Alan Stokes
Sep 263 min read
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