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Men's Mental Fitness


How Men Can Keep Their Relationships with Their Children as Teenagers and Young Adults
Building and maintaining a strong relationship with your children as they grow into teenagers and young adults can feel like walking a tightrope. The changes they go through, the new challenges they face, and the natural push for independence can create distance. But staying connected is possible, and it’s worth the effort. I want to share some practical ways men can keep those bonds strong, even when it feels like your child is slipping away.
Alan Stokes
Jun 154 min read


Managing ADHD as a Man After a Diagnosis Later in Life
Getting diagnosed with ADHD as an adult can feel like a mix of relief and confusion. You finally have a name for the struggles you’ve faced, but now you’re wondering how to manage it. For men over 30, especially those living in Plymouth, this journey can be challenging but also full of hope. I want to share some practical ways to handle ADHD after a late diagnosis and highlight a local service that can really make a difference.
Alan Stokes
Jun 144 min read


Rebuilding Your Life After a Relationship Breakdown
Breaking up is tough. It shakes your world and leaves you wondering how to move forward. If you’re a man over 30 in Plymouth, feeling isolated or unsure about what comes next, you’re not alone. Rebuilding your life after a relationship ends takes time, patience, and the right support.
Alan Stokes
Jun 63 min read


Breaking the Silence: Why Men in Plymouth Need to Talk
Ever noticed how men often dodge serious conversations about what’s really on their minds? Instead of opening up, many crack jokes or change the subject. It’s like there’s an unspoken rule: don’t show worry, just laugh it off. But why is that? Why do so many men find it easier to use humour as a shield rather than talk honestly about their worries?
Alan Stokes
May 214 min read


The Pressure of Being the Strong One
I think a lot of men quietly break under pressure long before anybody notices.
Not because they are weak.
But because they become too good at hiding it.
Over the last few years, I found myself carrying pressures from every direction at once.
Alan Stokes
May 214 min read


Learn about the Benefits of Joining Momentum Men Support Group in Plymouth
MoMENtum Men’s Support Group helps men 30+ in Plymouth beat loneliness, build real friendships, share experiences, and feel supported.
Alan Stokes
Jan 255 min read


How Do You Deal With Being Kept Away From Your Children When a Relationship Breaks Down?
UK guide for men when contact stops: how to stabilise, communicate, use mediation, and record efforts—while safeguarding your child’s wellbeing.
Alan Stokes
Dec 16, 20255 min read


Small Cracks, Big Impact: How Everyday Stress Builds Without Notice
Burnout doesn’t hit overnight. Spot small stress cracks in 60 seconds and use 1% habits—breath, sleep, boundaries—to feel better fast.
Alan Stokes
Nov 25, 20254 min read


How Modern Life Trains Us to Ignore Our Own Needs
Modern life pressures men to push aside their needs. Discover why it happens, the hidden costs, and how groups like MoMENtum create connection and belonging.
Alan Stokes
Nov 18, 20255 min read


Exploring the Benefits of Men's Community Groups
When life gets busy and responsibilities pile up, it’s easy to feel isolated. Many of us crave connection but don’t always know where to find it. That’s where men's groups come in. These groups offer a space to share, support, and grow together. They’re about more than just meeting up - they create a sense of belonging and purpose. Joining a men's community group can be a game-changer. It’s a place where men over 30 in Plymouth can find friendship, encouragement, and practic
Alan Stokes
Oct 31, 20253 min read
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