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MOMENTUM BLOG
Ideas, Stories & Ways To Keep Moving Forward
Explore honest insights, practical advice and stories about friendship, wellbeing, confidence, connection and life as a man.


Getting the Balance of Life Right and Making Time for You
Finding the right balance in life can feel like chasing a shadow. Between work, family, and social commitments, it’s easy to lose sight of what really matters—making time for yourself. I’ve been there, juggling too many things and feeling stretched thin. But over time, I’ve learned that carving out moments just for me isn’t selfish; it’s essential.
Alan Stokes
Jun 45 min read


How to Get Over a Relationship Breakdown and Find Your Way Forward
Breaking up is tough. It shakes your world and leaves you feeling lost. If you’re a man over 30 in Plymouth, you might find yourself wondering how to move on, how to heal, and how to rebuild your life. I’ve been there, and I want to share some honest, practical advice that helped me and many others find a way through the pain.
Alan Stokes
May 294 min read


Discover the Value of Local Men's Community Groups in Plymouth
When I first heard about local men's community groups in Plymouth, I was a bit skeptical. I thought, "Do I really need a group to hang out with other blokes?" But as I got involved, I quickly realised these groups offer so much more than just a place to meet. They create a space where men over 30 can connect, share, and support each other in ways that everyday life often doesn’t allow.
If you’re feeling a bit isolated or just want to find a community that understands the u
Alan Stokes
May 284 min read


Shame Recovery for Men: Strategies for Overcoming Shame in Men
Shame is a tough emotion to wrestle with. It sneaks in quietly, often when we least expect it, and can weigh heavily on our sense of self. For many men, especially those over 30, shame can feel like a silent burden—something to hide rather than confront. But here’s the truth: shame doesn’t have to control your life. There are ways to face it, understand it, and move beyond it. I want to share some strategies that have helped me and others on this journey of shame recovery for
Alan Stokes
May 253 min read
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