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Community Group Momentum and Some Frequently Asked Questions
If you’re a man over 30 living in Plymouth, you might have felt the weight of isolation or the struggle to find a community where you truly belong. I get it. Life gets busy, and sometimes it feels like the connections we crave just slip through our fingers. That’s where groups like group momentum come in. They offer a space to connect, share, and grow with others who understand what you’re going through. Let’s dive into some of the most common questions about group momentum
Alan Stokes
Nov 24, 20254 min read


Joining Momentum: A Step-by-Step Guide
Finding a place where you truly belong can feel like searching for a needle in a haystack. Especially when life gets busy, and the usual social circles start to shrink. I’ve been there - craving connection, wanting to be part of something real, but unsure where to start. That’s why I want to share a simple, honest guide to joining a local community, specifically one that’s been a game-changer for me: Momentum. If you’re a man over 30 in Plymouth looking for genuine connection
Alan Stokes
Nov 18, 20253 min read


How Modern Life Trains Us to Ignore Our Own Needs
Modern life pressures men to push aside their needs. Discover why it happens, the hidden costs, and how groups like MoMENtum create connection and belonging.
Alan Stokes
Nov 18, 20255 min read


Understanding Men's Support Groups
Life after 30 can feel like a bit of a rollercoaster. Work pressures, family responsibilities, and the quiet moments when you wonder if you’re really doing okay can all pile up. Sometimes, it’s tough to find a space where you can just be yourself without the usual masks. That’s where support groups for men come in. They offer a chance to connect, share, and grow with others who get it. Let’s dive into what these groups are all about and why they might just be the thing you di
Alan Stokes
Nov 17, 20255 min read


The Hidden Cost of Always Saying “I’m Fine”
Discover why men default to “I’m fine,” the hidden costs of silence, and how MoMENtum events in Plymouth help men connect, belong, and thrive.
Alan Stokes
Nov 11, 20255 min read


Practical Strategies to Reduce Loneliness
Loneliness can creep in quietly. It’s not just about being alone but feeling disconnected even when surrounded by people. For men over 30, especially here in Plymouth, finding meaningful connection can feel tough. But it doesn’t have to be that way. I want to share practical ways to reduce loneliness that have worked for me and many others. These strategies are straightforward, doable, and designed to help us build real friendships and support networks. Understanding the Chal
Alan Stokes
Nov 4, 20253 min read


Why Rest Feels Harder Than Work (and What to Do About It)
If you’ve ever sat down to “switch off” and immediately felt guilty, restless, or itchy for your phone—this is for you. Many men tell me...
Alan Stokes
Nov 4, 20254 min read


Are You Lonely? The Feeling We Don’t Talk About
“Loneliness is the signal men rarely speak about. Discover why silence around loneliness harms wellbeing—and how honest connection can change everything.”
Alan Stokes
Oct 31, 20254 min read


Exploring the Benefits of Men's Community Groups
When life gets busy and responsibilities pile up, it’s easy to feel isolated. Many of us crave connection but don’t always know where to find it. That’s where men's groups come in. These groups offer a space to share, support, and grow together. They’re about more than just meeting up - they create a sense of belonging and purpose. Joining a men's community group can be a game-changer. It’s a place where men over 30 in Plymouth can find friendship, encouragement, and practic
Alan Stokes
Oct 31, 20253 min read


The Mask of Perfection: Breaking Free from the Burden
“Why chasing ‘flawless’ keeps men stuck. Discover how putting down the perfect shield eases pressure, reduces isolation, and builds real strength through connection.”
Alan Stokes
Oct 24, 20254 min read


Embracing Vulnerability: A Path to Connection and Growth
Discover why vulnerability isn’t weakness, how avoidance harms relationships, and practical steps to build courage, honesty, and connection.
Alan Stokes
Oct 17, 20254 min read


Shame – the Silent Pain We Carry
The “never good enough” feeling Shame is the emotion that whispers, “You’re not enough.” It shapes our inner commentary and nudges us to...
Alan Stokes
Oct 10, 20253 min read


The Mask of Perfection, the Fear of Vulnerability, and the Cost of Silence
Discover how perfectionism and silence hurt men’s wellbeing—and how vulnerability, honesty, and brotherhood build real strength.
Alan Stokes
Oct 3, 20254 min read


Accountability & Brotherhood: Why Men Can’t Do This Alone
MoMENtum Men’s Group helps men in Plymouth build accountability, brotherhood, and connection. Discover why no man thrives alone.
Alan Stokes
Sep 26, 20253 min read


Riding the Rollercoaster of Starting Something New: My Journey with MoMENtum Men’s Group
“Starting MoMENtum Men’s Group has been a rollercoaster of excitement, fear, and hope. Discover the highs, lows, and lessons of building something that matters.”
Alan Stokes
Sep 20, 20254 min read


Men, Shame, and the “Not Good Enough” Trap
Discover how shame impacts men’s mental health and relationships, and learn practical steps to break the cycle.
Alan Stokes
Sep 19, 20253 min read


How Simple Invitations Can Shift Everything
My Story: A Rainy Morning and a Lifeline I was handing out maps at the start of a rainy Saturday walk—just a casual meetup idea to help...
Alan Stokes
Aug 29, 20252 min read


Pedals, Paths & Real Talk — How Movement Opens Doors
A Personal Story That Unfolded on Two Wheels I’d walked plenty, but didn’t really identify as a cyclist… until one spring morning changed...
Alan Stokes
Aug 22, 20252 min read


When a Walk Changed Everything: Why Community Makes the Difference
A Personal Moment That Changed Everything A couple of months back, I found myself unexpectedly stalling at the edge of the moorland,...
Alan Stokes
Aug 15, 20252 min read


10 Ways Men Can Boost Their Mental Health in 10 Minutes
Struggling to find time for your mental health? Here are 10 simple actions that take less than 10 minutes and can have a big impact: 1....
Alan Stokes
Aug 1, 20251 min read
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