Most of your old mates seem to have disappeared somewhere between work, relationships, kids and life. Days blur into weeks, and suddenly your social circle feels more like a dot than a circle. You might find yourself stuck in a routine of work, home, and family, with little time or energy left for anything else. Or maybe you’ve recently moved to Plymouth and don’t know many people yet. Whatever the reason, that shrinking social life can bring a sneaky feeling along for the ri

Shame is a tough emotion to wrestle with. It sneaks in quietly, often when we least expect it, and can weigh heavily on our sense of self. For many men, especially those over 30, shame can feel like a silent burden—something to hide rather than confront. But here’s the truth: shame doesn’t have to control your life. There are ways to face it, understand it, and move beyond it. I want to share some strategies that have helped me and others on this journey of shame recovery for